Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Where to get her on 2nd date

sosousage

Banned
Joined
Aug 22, 2017
Messages
3,547
Reaction score
1,219
Age
36
Aight I quite often rip my relationships with women after first date.

Its like first date is ok but then contact cuts or I text her something I shouldnt text her.


So I have two chicks that I was recently on FIRST dates with. One even drove me back to my house lol with her car.

Cute.

I tried to kiss her in the end thankfully for the trip. While I grabbed her waist (in the car) but she moved her face (now I am not sure if it was to avoid kiss or if she just wanted to look at me). so I kissed her on the cheeks.


Should I invite her home? or somewhere else
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

ubercat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2015
Messages
3,671
Reaction score
2,309
Location
Australia
Little of both do a 2 bar bounce somewhere near to you home ideally somewhere with live entertainment. I always seem to bat 50/50 with second dates as well. I think it's a bit different in my case as I'm naturally good at getting a wide variety of girls out on a date. Which ups your throughput but lowers your conversion rate. Anyway that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it for now :rolleyes:

When I have scored easily this involved multiple venues bit of social proof plenty of easy conversation starters in the environment. And as my old boxing coach said don't push too hard for the knockout it will come.


It also helps if you've got something cool or fun at your place. Eg the latest PlayStation or your good at making ****tails or you have a cheap ass art collection whatever I'm sure GQ and maxim's have a good list. You really should have something cool at your place anyway for your own self amusement. Self amusement is one of the most important inner game attributes

And honestly try and become a regular at a couple of places near you it makes life so much easier.

It says that you're a master DJ. But you did ask and it never hurts to revisit the basics. The classics are classics for a reason.
 
Last edited:

sosousage

Banned
Joined
Aug 22, 2017
Messages
3,547
Reaction score
1,219
Age
36
Little of both do a 2 bar bounce somewhere near to you home ideally somewhere with live entertainment. I always seem to bat 50/50 with second dates as well. I think it's a bit different in my case as I'm naturally good at getting a wide variety of girls out on a date. Which ups your throughput but lowers your conversion rate. Anyway that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it for now :rolleyes:

When I have scored easily this involved multiple venues bit of social proof plenty of easy conversation starters in the environment. And as my old boxing coach said don't push too hard for the knockout it will come.


It also helps if you've got something cool or fun at your place. Eg the latest PlayStation or your good at making ****tails or you have a cheap ass art collection whatever I'm sure GQ and maxim's have a good list. You really should have something cool at your place anyway for your own self amusement. Self amusement is one of the most important inner game attributes

And honestly try and become a regular at a couple of places near you it makes life so much easier.

It says that you're a master DJ. But you did ask and it never hurts to revisit the basics. The classics are classics for a reason.
Oh you checked my profile! anyway I just realised theres a word c0ck in c0cktail .


Ill take your advice. thanks
 
Top