"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Where to get her on 2nd date

sosousage

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Aight I quite often rip my relationships with women after first date.

Its like first date is ok but then contact cuts or I text her something I shouldnt text her.


So I have two chicks that I was recently on FIRST dates with. One even drove me back to my house lol with her car.

Cute.

I tried to kiss her in the end thankfully for the trip. While I grabbed her waist (in the car) but she moved her face (now I am not sure if it was to avoid kiss or if she just wanted to look at me). so I kissed her on the cheeks.


Should I invite her home? or somewhere else
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Little of both do a 2 bar bounce somewhere near to you home ideally somewhere with live entertainment. I always seem to bat 50/50 with second dates as well. I think it's a bit different in my case as I'm naturally good at getting a wide variety of girls out on a date. Which ups your throughput but lowers your conversion rate. Anyway that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it for now :rolleyes:

When I have scored easily this involved multiple venues bit of social proof plenty of easy conversation starters in the environment. And as my old boxing coach said don't push too hard for the knockout it will come.


It also helps if you've got something cool or fun at your place. Eg the latest PlayStation or your good at making ****tails or you have a cheap ass art collection whatever I'm sure GQ and maxim's have a good list. You really should have something cool at your place anyway for your own self amusement. Self amusement is one of the most important inner game attributes

And honestly try and become a regular at a couple of places near you it makes life so much easier.

It says that you're a master DJ. But you did ask and it never hurts to revisit the basics. The classics are classics for a reason.
 
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Little of both do a 2 bar bounce somewhere near to you home ideally somewhere with live entertainment. I always seem to bat 50/50 with second dates as well. I think it's a bit different in my case as I'm naturally good at getting a wide variety of girls out on a date. Which ups your throughput but lowers your conversion rate. Anyway that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it for now :rolleyes:

When I have scored easily this involved multiple venues bit of social proof plenty of easy conversation starters in the environment. And as my old boxing coach said don't push too hard for the knockout it will come.


It also helps if you've got something cool or fun at your place. Eg the latest PlayStation or your good at making ****tails or you have a cheap ass art collection whatever I'm sure GQ and maxim's have a good list. You really should have something cool at your place anyway for your own self amusement. Self amusement is one of the most important inner game attributes

And honestly try and become a regular at a couple of places near you it makes life so much easier.

It says that you're a master DJ. But you did ask and it never hurts to revisit the basics. The classics are classics for a reason.
Oh you checked my profile! anyway I just realised theres a word c0ck in c0cktail .


Ill take your advice. thanks
 
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