Albanian_Alpha
Don Juan
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Where to find girls to approach that are standing/sitting and not walking on the street???
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
:crackup: rofl :crackup:Where to find girls to approach that are standing/sitting and not walking on the street???
Only at bus/tram stations are they not movingChrizZ said::crackup: rofl :crackup:
Everywhere?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I live in the middle of Zagreb (capital of Croatia)....Analytic said:Best place I find is colleges/uni but if you live downtown of any city, there should be plenty of places.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Uh, I don't think this stuff is going to work in the Balkans. Especially not for an Albanian. Just a raw fact. This stuff is not going to work in much of the world. Balkans, Former Soviet Union, etc.BudBundi said:Tourist sites. For starters I understand Croatia has many fine national parks. Near you is Papuk Mountain.
Edit: sorry for thread resurrection. But hey, five minutes with google maps and wikipedia found this info.