"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Where to find girls to approach???

Albanian_Alpha

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Where to find girls to approach that are standing/sitting and not walking on the street???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ChrizZ

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Where to find girls to approach that are standing/sitting and not walking on the street???
:crackup: rofl :crackup:
Everywhere?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Analytic

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Best place I find is colleges/uni but if you live downtown of any city, there should be plenty of places.
 

Albanian_Alpha

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Analytic said:
Best place I find is colleges/uni but if you live downtown of any city, there should be plenty of places.
I live in the middle of Zagreb (capital of Croatia)....
 

BudBundi

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Tourist sites. For starters I understand Croatia has many fine national parks. Near you is Papuk Mountain.

Edit: sorry for thread resurrection. But hey, five minutes with google maps and wikipedia found this info.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BigJimbo

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BudBundi said:
Tourist sites. For starters I understand Croatia has many fine national parks. Near you is Papuk Mountain.

Edit: sorry for thread resurrection. But hey, five minutes with google maps and wikipedia found this info.
Uh, I don't think this stuff is going to work in the Balkans. Especially not for an Albanian. Just a raw fact. This stuff is not going to work in much of the world. Balkans, Former Soviet Union, etc.
 
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