"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Where to find girls to approach???

Albanian_Alpha

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Where to find girls to approach that are standing/sitting and not walking on the street???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ChrizZ

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Where to find girls to approach that are standing/sitting and not walking on the street???
:crackup: rofl :crackup:
Everywhere?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best place I find is colleges/uni but if you live downtown of any city, there should be plenty of places.
 

Albanian_Alpha

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Analytic said:
Best place I find is colleges/uni but if you live downtown of any city, there should be plenty of places.
I live in the middle of Zagreb (capital of Croatia)....
 

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Tourist sites. For starters I understand Croatia has many fine national parks. Near you is Papuk Mountain.

Edit: sorry for thread resurrection. But hey, five minutes with google maps and wikipedia found this info.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BigJimbo

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BudBundi said:
Tourist sites. For starters I understand Croatia has many fine national parks. Near you is Papuk Mountain.

Edit: sorry for thread resurrection. But hey, five minutes with google maps and wikipedia found this info.
Uh, I don't think this stuff is going to work in the Balkans. Especially not for an Albanian. Just a raw fact. This stuff is not going to work in much of the world. Balkans, Former Soviet Union, etc.
 
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