"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by Ridingthelightning
You shouldn't be having sex, don't be stupid, wait.
Let the flames begin.
Care to give a reason?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Joe Schmoe

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my girlfriend just got the 3 month shopt so should a condom be worn with that?
 

Sexy_Malibu

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my girlfriend just got the 3 month shopt so should a condom be worn with that?
Nothing is 100% so condom should always be worn anyway. And if she JUST got the shot, it may take some time to kick in... Also, only condoms protect against diseases and if that isn't enough then read the genital warts/hpv thread... you don't want that or anything else!!
 

AmgineEX

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Listen to Malibu! She might be an attention wh*re like someone else stated, but she's got it on the money. You (well, the girl actually) can be on the pill, shot, patch and use spermicidal lube the same time you'd still catch a nice batch of herpies. I'm jus saying condoms+pills is prolly enough as there's a logarithmic decay to the effectiveness of additional protection. The money you're shelling out for the extra isnt exactly doing too much. Like 99.99 percent safe vs 99.999.
 

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Re: RE

Originally posted by AmgineEX
Listen to Malibu! She might be an attention wh*re like someone else stated, but she's got it on the money. You (well, the girl actually) can be on the pill, shot, patch and use spermicidal lube the same time you'd still catch a nice batch of herpies. I'm jus saying condoms+pills is prolly enough as there's a logarithmic decay to the effectiveness of additional protection. The money you're shelling out for the extra isnt exactly doing too much. Like 99.99 percent safe vs 99.999.
True, very true
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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