"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Where should I begin?

Absolute Pimp

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Greetings all, I've been coming here for a while, browsing posts and replying when I can. But the time has come for me in my life that I've just said f*ck it. It's time to start living for myself and doing the things I want to do. There is a wealth of information on these forums, so much so, that it can be quite difficult to even begin to know where to start.

There's the DJ Bible in the top-right, the HS DJ Bible, DJ Bootcamp, Mr. Finger's series, and countless other series put together by certain people.

My question is this. Where should I start? Should I read one item, move on to the next, or what? If somebody could help piece together a guideline of what to read, what to practise and such so as to begin improving myself, that would be GREATLY appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Microphone Fiend

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Welcome to the site that'll change yourlife. Just remember to keep your mind open, and don't knock it til u try it...

As for your question, go to the DJ bible and click on the "6 week bible reading guide" That's a good selection of posts most applicable to newbies
 

Bombshell

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yea your right there is a lot of scattered information here. I myself began learning about the game here it is a very awsome thread run by a couple of absolutely awsome PUAs named Cragz and SauceHead. Assuming you were bad with girls (which is probably why you are here) he will start you off from scratch and tell you what you were doing wrong. The first half of the forum is full of very usefull information and lessons I suggest you try reading that as a good background before you come here. (i found this site as a link on that forum)

Also that site has fking awsome information on how to be a bodybuilder or getting in shape in general which i also started a while ago and am way more confident and happy with myself now. THE BEST THING ANYONE CAN DO FORTHEMSELVES IS LIFT WEIGHTS imo. =)

And for thoes of you who know of him, saucehead's forum pretty much goes along with David D's teachings.
 

LikRetsam

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After much thought, I suggest you click DJ bible and read the "must read" ones and anything else that catches your interrest. Go out and get experienced and in a few months, read Weapons of Mass Seduction. You could read it right away but it might help if you have some experience frist. That post is genious, only 90 pages.
 

Smooth as Anything

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My signature.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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