"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Where should I begin?

Absolute Pimp

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Greetings all, I've been coming here for a while, browsing posts and replying when I can. But the time has come for me in my life that I've just said f*ck it. It's time to start living for myself and doing the things I want to do. There is a wealth of information on these forums, so much so, that it can be quite difficult to even begin to know where to start.

There's the DJ Bible in the top-right, the HS DJ Bible, DJ Bootcamp, Mr. Finger's series, and countless other series put together by certain people.

My question is this. Where should I start? Should I read one item, move on to the next, or what? If somebody could help piece together a guideline of what to read, what to practise and such so as to begin improving myself, that would be GREATLY appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Microphone Fiend

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Welcome to the site that'll change yourlife. Just remember to keep your mind open, and don't knock it til u try it...

As for your question, go to the DJ bible and click on the "6 week bible reading guide" That's a good selection of posts most applicable to newbies
 

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yea your right there is a lot of scattered information here. I myself began learning about the game here it is a very awsome thread run by a couple of absolutely awsome PUAs named Cragz and SauceHead. Assuming you were bad with girls (which is probably why you are here) he will start you off from scratch and tell you what you were doing wrong. The first half of the forum is full of very usefull information and lessons I suggest you try reading that as a good background before you come here. (i found this site as a link on that forum)

Also that site has fking awsome information on how to be a bodybuilder or getting in shape in general which i also started a while ago and am way more confident and happy with myself now. THE BEST THING ANYONE CAN DO FORTHEMSELVES IS LIFT WEIGHTS imo. =)

And for thoes of you who know of him, saucehead's forum pretty much goes along with David D's teachings.
 

LikRetsam

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After much thought, I suggest you click DJ bible and read the "must read" ones and anything else that catches your interrest. Go out and get experienced and in a few months, read Weapons of Mass Seduction. You could read it right away but it might help if you have some experience frist. That post is genious, only 90 pages.
 

Smooth as Anything

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My signature.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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