Nice man I am now onto day 15. The benefits are there no doubt. I love not masturbating.HariPoter13 said:Day 22 for me
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Nice man I am now onto day 15. The benefits are there no doubt. I love not masturbating.HariPoter13 said:Day 22 for me
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Day 15? The way you're talking about MB like it's the downfall of mankind, you'd think it was 15 years.Energy25 said:Nice man I am now onto day 15. The benefits are there no doubt. I love not masturbating.
Why? Simply because I said there are numerous benefits to not masturbating? Simply stating a personal fact for myself. Others can try if they want to, but do I really care if you masturbate? No, in fact I'd rather other guys did. Only helps me.Iceberg said:Day 15? The way you're talking about MB like it's the downfall of mankind, you'd think it was 15 years.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mantis Toboggan said:-Less hammerhead sharks around you.
-Increased Bestosterone (it's like testosterone, but better).
-Less intergalactic space wars
-Supermodels only date dudes who don't MB
I figured since we're just pulling facts out of our ass, we might as well go balls to the wall.
You guys are f**kin weirdos. Masturbation, in normal quantities, will not make you better or worse at life.
Lots of good came out of that thread, man! Decent point about the magic pill, it may be true for some, but the last part is the bottom line... That's it, basically.snowdog said:Glad they got rid of it. It was ridiculous to begin with. Guys who would do crazy BS like holding off for weeks and sh*t... not realizing that they were looking for a magic pill in there.
For those who missed this abortion of a thread, the bottom line was: Jerking off is fine, just don't turn into a chronic porn monkey.
Source: http://herballove.com/article.asp?Art=11herballove said:If a man has never had sex or has yet to discharge for a long time (sometimes six to ten days are long enough), he will temporarily lose his ability to power his penis to an extreme.
Maybe because it was a dumb post?snowdog said:Hahahaha that's gold.
That energy25 dude actually gave me a negative rep for my first reply.
****ing freak.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Others aren't on the same page? I believe you were a pretty big contributer to the original thread, in which many, many people believed not masturbating to be beneficial. Maybe you have memory problems. Regardless, stop masturbating kids. It's only going to help you.snowdog said:The fact that you clearly can't deal with the fact that others aren't on the same page with you is something you should take a good, hard look at. Seriously. It's probably a part of your problems.
I wasn't a big contributor at all, I made the same point in that thread as I did here; this isn't a cause or solution to your problems. It's the same with everything, it's okay in moderation.Energy25 said:Others aren't on the same page? I believe you were a pretty big contributer to the original thread, in which many, many people believed not masturbating to be beneficial. Maybe you have memory problems. Regardless, stop masturbating kids. It's only going to help you.
You're right, you failed to contribute anything to that thread regardless of the countless posts you made. Pretty sad on your part. For many people, not masturbating has proven to be a very beneficial tool in self-improvement. For you to argue with people's own personal accounts of this is pure stupidity.snowdog said:I wasn't a big contributor at all, I made the same point in that thread as I did here; this isn't a cause or solution to your problems. It's the same with everything, it's okay in moderation.
Regardless, don't listen to this Energy25 guy, kids. He's weird and will probably try to lure you into his van.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
In my opinion masturbation may be indirectly causing this. I think if you ate well, slept early and enough and did an normal amount of exercise (Not too much or too little) you would be more then fine. Try some of these: a banana, drink orange juice, an apple, a pear, a kiwi, some nuts, goji berry's... I like those, if I was nervous that is what I would take to calm me down.Poonani Maker said:Masturbated 3 times in 3 hours last night...to porn of course
It totally fvcked me for today. I had to meet with a financial adviser, boy could I not think straight..I was fine for talking specifics about my planning, but when we just shot the sh!t talking about non-finance related things, I could not function. My speech was all stilted and cluttered about simple things like guns, survivalism, cycling, my job, my house, vacation plans, the weather. I just could not speak without being RELAXED or anal about everything. He could tell that I was fvcked up too, probably didn't even want to shake my hand. My eyes and face must look all blitzed from the wackathon I had last night. Not cool. Day 1.
Don't know about pvssy prospects as a result of my uncharacteristic binge last night. I'll know by tomorrow. It's sad.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.