Nice man I am now onto day 15. The benefits are there no doubt. I love not masturbating.HariPoter13 said:Day 22 for me
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nice man I am now onto day 15. The benefits are there no doubt. I love not masturbating.HariPoter13 said:Day 22 for me
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Day 15? The way you're talking about MB like it's the downfall of mankind, you'd think it was 15 years.Energy25 said:Nice man I am now onto day 15. The benefits are there no doubt. I love not masturbating.
Why? Simply because I said there are numerous benefits to not masturbating? Simply stating a personal fact for myself. Others can try if they want to, but do I really care if you masturbate? No, in fact I'd rather other guys did. Only helps me.Iceberg said:Day 15? The way you're talking about MB like it's the downfall of mankind, you'd think it was 15 years.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mantis Toboggan said:-Less hammerhead sharks around you.
-Increased Bestosterone (it's like testosterone, but better).
-Less intergalactic space wars
-Supermodels only date dudes who don't MB
I figured since we're just pulling facts out of our ass, we might as well go balls to the wall.
You guys are f**kin weirdos. Masturbation, in normal quantities, will not make you better or worse at life.
Lots of good came out of that thread, man! Decent point about the magic pill, it may be true for some, but the last part is the bottom line... That's it, basically.snowdog said:Glad they got rid of it. It was ridiculous to begin with. Guys who would do crazy BS like holding off for weeks and sh*t... not realizing that they were looking for a magic pill in there.
For those who missed this abortion of a thread, the bottom line was: Jerking off is fine, just don't turn into a chronic porn monkey.
Source: http://herballove.com/article.asp?Art=11herballove said:If a man has never had sex or has yet to discharge for a long time (sometimes six to ten days are long enough), he will temporarily lose his ability to power his penis to an extreme.
Maybe because it was a dumb post?snowdog said:Hahahaha that's gold.
That energy25 dude actually gave me a negative rep for my first reply.
****ing freak.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Others aren't on the same page? I believe you were a pretty big contributer to the original thread, in which many, many people believed not masturbating to be beneficial. Maybe you have memory problems. Regardless, stop masturbating kids. It's only going to help you.snowdog said:The fact that you clearly can't deal with the fact that others aren't on the same page with you is something you should take a good, hard look at. Seriously. It's probably a part of your problems.
I wasn't a big contributor at all, I made the same point in that thread as I did here; this isn't a cause or solution to your problems. It's the same with everything, it's okay in moderation.Energy25 said:Others aren't on the same page? I believe you were a pretty big contributer to the original thread, in which many, many people believed not masturbating to be beneficial. Maybe you have memory problems. Regardless, stop masturbating kids. It's only going to help you.
You're right, you failed to contribute anything to that thread regardless of the countless posts you made. Pretty sad on your part. For many people, not masturbating has proven to be a very beneficial tool in self-improvement. For you to argue with people's own personal accounts of this is pure stupidity.snowdog said:I wasn't a big contributor at all, I made the same point in that thread as I did here; this isn't a cause or solution to your problems. It's the same with everything, it's okay in moderation.
Regardless, don't listen to this Energy25 guy, kids. He's weird and will probably try to lure you into his van.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
In my opinion masturbation may be indirectly causing this. I think if you ate well, slept early and enough and did an normal amount of exercise (Not too much or too little) you would be more then fine. Try some of these: a banana, drink orange juice, an apple, a pear, a kiwi, some nuts, goji berry's... I like those, if I was nervous that is what I would take to calm me down.Poonani Maker said:Masturbated 3 times in 3 hours last night...to porn of course
It totally fvcked me for today. I had to meet with a financial adviser, boy could I not think straight..I was fine for talking specifics about my planning, but when we just shot the sh!t talking about non-finance related things, I could not function. My speech was all stilted and cluttered about simple things like guns, survivalism, cycling, my job, my house, vacation plans, the weather. I just could not speak without being RELAXED or anal about everything. He could tell that I was fvcked up too, probably didn't even want to shake my hand. My eyes and face must look all blitzed from the wackathon I had last night. Not cool. Day 1.
Don't know about pvssy prospects as a result of my uncharacteristic binge last night. I'll know by tomorrow. It's sad.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.