"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Where is the love?!?!

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What's up guys? I don't have any women advice, no dating advice, exc for this thread.

What I do have though is.....L.O.V.E!

Thought I'd show my love for you guys, just wanna give each and everyone of y'all a shoutout for helping me through things. Replying to my messages, exc. All y'all know a lot of my problems that people that live around me don't even know. I hope we all can just humble ourselves to each other and continue to help each other out. Cause we all out for the same prize which is booty and a better life. This not only includes on here, this goes for you're everyday life. Show some love toward ya pops and mom, ya cousins, aunts, uncle's exc.

If anyone else on here wants to show some love then by all means reply and lets hear it!

Can I get an AMEN?!?!?

*Puts on some black eyed peas "where is the love" and walks out*
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't feel, sorry.
 

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That's ok lik....some people are cold hearted b*stards...I still love ya bro:D


p.s thanks for all the good stuff you've shared with us on the board. Realy appreciate it man.
 

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Nope I'm not high I just have love for my fellow DJ's. Critic me all you want. :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is he high?!?

Why does everytime when someone is different he is high or retarded?

Aren't we the ones striving for uniqueness, to be different than the others, to be better? Then why we keep on returning back to stereotypical thinking, to hating when someone has a different outlook on things? Isn't there all over the bible posts that state "don't be too harsh on others", "accept other people's opinions", "you can always learn something new from everyone, so hear out their perspective"?

But, please, don't pay attention to me, I'm just asking myself some stupid questions... :rolleyes:
 

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This post is cool as long as he remembers that this site IS for lonely men but its meant to help them find girls, not keep each other company. ;)
 

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I think he posted after a boxing match with his kangaroo...(and we all know who won THAT one...)

Naah seriously, good stuff there, but i wouldn't apply L.O.V.E to women until after at least 30 years of marriage. Or more. ;)
 

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I think he posted after a boxing match with his kangaroo...(and we all know who won THAT one...)
Yeah.....his jab was pretty bad but not as bad as my ball bat. :p

Naah seriously, good stuff there, but i wouldn't apply L.O.V.E to women until after at least 30 years of marriage. Or more.
nah im talkin bout love for my fellow dj's! :cool:



This post is cool as long as he remembers that this site IS for lonely men but its meant to help them find girls, not keep each other company.
Tru sammo but I think its awesome that we can all help each other out. :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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