"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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justhe_justin said:
Women's best skills are nagging and lying
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Of course it is, otherwise how could they possibly survive?

This world, the real reality, is that we live in a world of man and beast, a world where women could never survive on her own if you take away their lying and nagging skillset.

The world which women dreams of having is a fantasy world that actually doesn't exists but somehow it comes to life in tiny bits of moments due to being empowered by men, through his creation.

It is this men, whom by and large has also taken up the belief in that fantasy world, manipulated by women into it and then they end up becoming delusional and angry.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mrgoodstuff said:
Even in the late 90's and very early 2000's we were able to "mack" or conversate with women around night clubs, the street, grocery stores, gas stations and bus stops. The goal wasn't to get a phone number or laid, the goal was to conversate.
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Absolutely. I miss this part the most. There was (and still is) something exciting about meeting someone new (in real life) and shooting the shyte with them, even if it didn't go anywhere.
 
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Mike32ct said:
Absolutely. I miss this part the most. There was (and still is) something exciting about meeting someone new (in real life) and shooting the shyte with them, even if it didn't go anywhere.
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Mike32ct/All,

We still can do these things. In environments where we share activities, people will come to become familiar with you. There will be natural openings in which communication will occur, and you will learn people and they will learn you.

As far as saying hi in the grocery store and things like that, when I was more "sosuave jaded" for the last few years, that was not going to happen in a million years. But with my "azzhole level" dialed back 2 notches, some of the ladies do want to speak and greet me. It's happening everywhere.
 
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