"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Where have all the intelligent people gone?

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justhe_justin said:
Women's best skills are nagging and lying
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Of course it is, otherwise how could they possibly survive?

This world, the real reality, is that we live in a world of man and beast, a world where women could never survive on her own if you take away their lying and nagging skillset.

The world which women dreams of having is a fantasy world that actually doesn't exists but somehow it comes to life in tiny bits of moments due to being empowered by men, through his creation.

It is this men, whom by and large has also taken up the belief in that fantasy world, manipulated by women into it and then they end up becoming delusional and angry.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mrgoodstuff said:
Even in the late 90's and very early 2000's we were able to "mack" or conversate with women around night clubs, the street, grocery stores, gas stations and bus stops. The goal wasn't to get a phone number or laid, the goal was to conversate.
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Absolutely. I miss this part the most. There was (and still is) something exciting about meeting someone new (in real life) and shooting the shyte with them, even if it didn't go anywhere.
 
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Mike32ct said:
Absolutely. I miss this part the most. There was (and still is) something exciting about meeting someone new (in real life) and shooting the shyte with them, even if it didn't go anywhere.
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Mike32ct/All,

We still can do these things. In environments where we share activities, people will come to become familiar with you. There will be natural openings in which communication will occur, and you will learn people and they will learn you.

As far as saying hi in the grocery store and things like that, when I was more "sosuave jaded" for the last few years, that was not going to happen in a million years. But with my "azzhole level" dialed back 2 notches, some of the ladies do want to speak and greet me. It's happening everywhere.
 
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