"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Where have all the DJ`s Gone

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I asked myself this question lt night after tying to read some posts in this forum.

Alot of u guys seem to be totally AFC and only use this board as an agony aunt colum.

This site is here to help you all turn it around.

You all NEED to read the Bible before even posting as it will let you know ultra small details that will help you in your DJing ways.

I cant recommend the Weapons Of Mass Seducion enough either.

This alone has changed me around from an AFC back into a person who is totally comfortable being around women again.

What you dont realise if your single is there are single women out t here waiting and your all hesitating.

Come on guys pull yourselves together get out there and land yourself a choice woman.

Ricard
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LOL i can see by your other posts your loosing your faith in this board as well.

All i see is AFC`s and excuses.

Apart from The Shezzlers posts.
 

FOL!!!

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Gimme some time (and from my side alot of silence) and I'll be at the right side ;)
 

So pimp its scary

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It's been that way for years, there are always people that are the real deal that come and go.

Hell, I've came and left many times. I feel that I've learned about as much from this site that I am going to learn, the only reason I still come is to try and find those that are truly looking for help (too many just say they are) and help bring them up to speed.

Ricard, there are others that actually know what they are talking about still around... trouble is pointing who they actually are.
 

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It's because people don't take action.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whoever said "Knowledge is power" must have took the will to use it for granted.
 

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I have to agree. I feel like I've given more advise than I have recieved. I haven't posted that much but I've been reading and rereading the DJ Bible for close to a year now and practicing what I've learned and trying new things or new variations. I come on to these boreds and I just want to copy and past things right out of the damn DJ Bible for people. I mean I view the DJ Bible as learning the Basics and coming on to the forums as more of an advanced up-to-date version of the DJ Bible. But it seems like it's either someone braging about some evening he had or some AFC story.
 

Chemistry

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LOL... it's more like a help forum than one where people of a similar mind talk of their experiences and build on them...

Reason... if you're getting none there's a much greater compulsion to post and try to find a fix, than if you're getting some regularly...
 

So pimp its scary

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Visceral - Love that quote

ConfidentDon - Honestly, alot of the time FR's come across as bragging, but that's just in the way that they are written. An FR is essentially that, showing the process in action, as best it can be described. There are times where I've had nights that I was going to post as FR's, but they just get brushed off as either bragging or 'Not Possible'.

I believe the reason for that is just that alot of what's goes on doesn't even EXIST in the realm of possibility for someone that's never had similar experiences.

Ashley - I hate to agree with you on that one... although there are plenty of exceptions.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My guess is that people who have succeeded from this site's teachings already had at least a few vital skills to get them started. Some had sense of humor, ****iness, sociability but no willingness to use it in ways that attracts women. In that case, this site was just a key to undo those shackles. However, some of us didn't have these skills to begin with. I can only speak for myself here but for it's been nothing but a steep uphill battle for me.
 
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