"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where have all the DJ`s Gone

Ricard78

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I asked myself this question lt night after tying to read some posts in this forum.

Alot of u guys seem to be totally AFC and only use this board as an agony aunt colum.

This site is here to help you all turn it around.

You all NEED to read the Bible before even posting as it will let you know ultra small details that will help you in your DJing ways.

I cant recommend the Weapons Of Mass Seducion enough either.

This alone has changed me around from an AFC back into a person who is totally comfortable being around women again.

What you dont realise if your single is there are single women out t here waiting and your all hesitating.

Come on guys pull yourselves together get out there and land yourself a choice woman.

Ricard
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ricard78

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LOL i can see by your other posts your loosing your faith in this board as well.

All i see is AFC`s and excuses.

Apart from The Shezzlers posts.
 

FOL!!!

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Gimme some time (and from my side alot of silence) and I'll be at the right side ;)
 

So pimp its scary

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It's been that way for years, there are always people that are the real deal that come and go.

Hell, I've came and left many times. I feel that I've learned about as much from this site that I am going to learn, the only reason I still come is to try and find those that are truly looking for help (too many just say they are) and help bring them up to speed.

Ricard, there are others that actually know what they are talking about still around... trouble is pointing who they actually are.
 

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It's because people don't take action.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Visceral

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Whoever said "Knowledge is power" must have took the will to use it for granted.
 

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I have to agree. I feel like I've given more advise than I have recieved. I haven't posted that much but I've been reading and rereading the DJ Bible for close to a year now and practicing what I've learned and trying new things or new variations. I come on to these boreds and I just want to copy and past things right out of the damn DJ Bible for people. I mean I view the DJ Bible as learning the Basics and coming on to the forums as more of an advanced up-to-date version of the DJ Bible. But it seems like it's either someone braging about some evening he had or some AFC story.
 

Chemistry

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LOL... it's more like a help forum than one where people of a similar mind talk of their experiences and build on them...

Reason... if you're getting none there's a much greater compulsion to post and try to find a fix, than if you're getting some regularly...
 

So pimp its scary

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Visceral - Love that quote

ConfidentDon - Honestly, alot of the time FR's come across as bragging, but that's just in the way that they are written. An FR is essentially that, showing the process in action, as best it can be described. There are times where I've had nights that I was going to post as FR's, but they just get brushed off as either bragging or 'Not Possible'.

I believe the reason for that is just that alot of what's goes on doesn't even EXIST in the realm of possibility for someone that's never had similar experiences.

Ashley - I hate to agree with you on that one... although there are plenty of exceptions.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My guess is that people who have succeeded from this site's teachings already had at least a few vital skills to get them started. Some had sense of humor, ****iness, sociability but no willingness to use it in ways that attracts women. In that case, this site was just a key to undo those shackles. However, some of us didn't have these skills to begin with. I can only speak for myself here but for it's been nothing but a steep uphill battle for me.
 
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