"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Where have all the DJ`s Gone

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I asked myself this question lt night after tying to read some posts in this forum.

Alot of u guys seem to be totally AFC and only use this board as an agony aunt colum.

This site is here to help you all turn it around.

You all NEED to read the Bible before even posting as it will let you know ultra small details that will help you in your DJing ways.

I cant recommend the Weapons Of Mass Seducion enough either.

This alone has changed me around from an AFC back into a person who is totally comfortable being around women again.

What you dont realise if your single is there are single women out t here waiting and your all hesitating.

Come on guys pull yourselves together get out there and land yourself a choice woman.

Ricard
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LOL i can see by your other posts your loosing your faith in this board as well.

All i see is AFC`s and excuses.

Apart from The Shezzlers posts.
 
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Gimme some time (and from my side alot of silence) and I'll be at the right side ;)
 
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It's been that way for years, there are always people that are the real deal that come and go.

Hell, I've came and left many times. I feel that I've learned about as much from this site that I am going to learn, the only reason I still come is to try and find those that are truly looking for help (too many just say they are) and help bring them up to speed.

Ricard, there are others that actually know what they are talking about still around... trouble is pointing who they actually are.
 
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It's because people don't take action.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whoever said "Knowledge is power" must have took the will to use it for granted.
 
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I have to agree. I feel like I've given more advise than I have recieved. I haven't posted that much but I've been reading and rereading the DJ Bible for close to a year now and practicing what I've learned and trying new things or new variations. I come on to these boreds and I just want to copy and past things right out of the damn DJ Bible for people. I mean I view the DJ Bible as learning the Basics and coming on to the forums as more of an advanced up-to-date version of the DJ Bible. But it seems like it's either someone braging about some evening he had or some AFC story.
 
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LOL... it's more like a help forum than one where people of a similar mind talk of their experiences and build on them...

Reason... if you're getting none there's a much greater compulsion to post and try to find a fix, than if you're getting some regularly...
 
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Visceral - Love that quote

ConfidentDon - Honestly, alot of the time FR's come across as bragging, but that's just in the way that they are written. An FR is essentially that, showing the process in action, as best it can be described. There are times where I've had nights that I was going to post as FR's, but they just get brushed off as either bragging or 'Not Possible'.

I believe the reason for that is just that alot of what's goes on doesn't even EXIST in the realm of possibility for someone that's never had similar experiences.

Ashley - I hate to agree with you on that one... although there are plenty of exceptions.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My guess is that people who have succeeded from this site's teachings already had at least a few vital skills to get them started. Some had sense of humor, ****iness, sociability but no willingness to use it in ways that attracts women. In that case, this site was just a key to undo those shackles. However, some of us didn't have these skills to begin with. I can only speak for myself here but for it's been nothing but a steep uphill battle for me.
 
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