"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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where do you meet women?

bookman

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put bars aside, I live in the middle east, singles bars is not a striving business

plus I am a university student. it simply does not seem to me that the women I meet in the university/library/mall want to be aproached. you ever get the feeling that the women around you are lesbian? they hang around in packs of 6 and more, they go to the bathroom together, they do everything together, you try to talk to one of them, she invites you to join the group...uh...no thank you, I'd rather be thrown in a worm pile than to hang out with 3+ girls and talk about lipstick. this forum covers almost everything on how to talk to women what body language you shoudl have etc... but I do not find anything on situations like this, which happen 95% of the time

it is very rare to find a woman sitting alone
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bookman

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lol
well what I am saying is, they don't look approachable.
and I want some tips on how to approach them when they are in groups, because that happenes to be the majority of cases
 

King Turi

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I have no idea, I get people coming up to me and starting the conversations..

I guess your best bet is to just go over to them and say "what's up?" or something.

If it fails, try somethin' else next time.

Basically just have to give it a shot, bro.
 
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