"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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where do you meet women?

bookman

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put bars aside, I live in the middle east, singles bars is not a striving business

plus I am a university student. it simply does not seem to me that the women I meet in the university/library/mall want to be aproached. you ever get the feeling that the women around you are lesbian? they hang around in packs of 6 and more, they go to the bathroom together, they do everything together, you try to talk to one of them, she invites you to join the group...uh...no thank you, I'd rather be thrown in a worm pile than to hang out with 3+ girls and talk about lipstick. this forum covers almost everything on how to talk to women what body language you shoudl have etc... but I do not find anything on situations like this, which happen 95% of the time

it is very rare to find a woman sitting alone
help
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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bookman

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lol
well what I am saying is, they don't look approachable.
and I want some tips on how to approach them when they are in groups, because that happenes to be the majority of cases
 

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I have no idea, I get people coming up to me and starting the conversations..

I guess your best bet is to just go over to them and say "what's up?" or something.

If it fails, try somethin' else next time.

Basically just have to give it a shot, bro.
 
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