"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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where do you meet women?

bookman

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put bars aside, I live in the middle east, singles bars is not a striving business

plus I am a university student. it simply does not seem to me that the women I meet in the university/library/mall want to be aproached. you ever get the feeling that the women around you are lesbian? they hang around in packs of 6 and more, they go to the bathroom together, they do everything together, you try to talk to one of them, she invites you to join the group...uh...no thank you, I'd rather be thrown in a worm pile than to hang out with 3+ girls and talk about lipstick. this forum covers almost everything on how to talk to women what body language you shoudl have etc... but I do not find anything on situations like this, which happen 95% of the time

it is very rare to find a woman sitting alone
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bookman

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lol
well what I am saying is, they don't look approachable.
and I want some tips on how to approach them when they are in groups, because that happenes to be the majority of cases
 

King Turi

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I have no idea, I get people coming up to me and starting the conversations..

I guess your best bet is to just go over to them and say "what's up?" or something.

If it fails, try somethin' else next time.

Basically just have to give it a shot, bro.
 
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