"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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where do you meet women?

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bookman

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put bars aside, I live in the middle east, singles bars is not a striving business

plus I am a university student. it simply does not seem to me that the women I meet in the university/library/mall want to be aproached. you ever get the feeling that the women around you are lesbian? they hang around in packs of 6 and more, they go to the bathroom together, they do everything together, you try to talk to one of them, she invites you to join the group...uh...no thank you, I'd rather be thrown in a worm pile than to hang out with 3+ girls and talk about lipstick. this forum covers almost everything on how to talk to women what body language you shoudl have etc... but I do not find anything on situations like this, which happen 95% of the time

it is very rare to find a woman sitting alone
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bookman

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lol
well what I am saying is, they don't look approachable.
and I want some tips on how to approach them when they are in groups, because that happenes to be the majority of cases
 
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I have no idea, I get people coming up to me and starting the conversations..

I guess your best bet is to just go over to them and say "what's up?" or something.

If it fails, try somethin' else next time.

Basically just have to give it a shot, bro.
 
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