jophil28
Master Don Juan
??zekko said:
I went to a Salsa class once down on the OuterBanks NC.
They are as plentiful as KFC stores.
Try the yello pages Zeek.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Where do you guys FIND women these days?
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I went to a Salsa class once down on the OuterBanks NC.
They are as plentiful as KFC stores.
Try the yello pages Zeek.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If you can't dance but like eating...there are tons of women in grocery stores.
I'm going to start hitting on women at my local grocery store very shortly. I've seen them looking.
I'll try this: (if she's looking at beef or something) "hey didn't we agree on salmon for dinner?" She just might laugh.
Or my favourite pickup line: "hello there"
Oh also...the library. FULL of college chicks. I dare one of you to grab a "dating for dummies " book and walk up to a girl with it in your hand.
Haha.
I'm going to start hitting on women at my local grocery store very shortly. I've seen them looking.
I'll try this: (if she's looking at beef or something) "hey didn't we agree on salmon for dinner?" She just might laugh.
Or my favourite pickup line: "hello there"
Oh also...the library. FULL of college chicks. I dare one of you to grab a "dating for dummies " book and walk up to a girl with it in your hand.
Haha.
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Thataboy!asid76 said:
Cheesy, but it might work, and is certainly better than doing nothing.
The secret of my success is never looking for women, but opening my eyes and realizing they are everywhere. My friends always crack up when I'm single because I talk to women everywhere. One time we were picking up a pizza because I hadn't showered or shaved in a few days, was wearing ratty clothes, and looked like a literal bum. Soon as we walked in the the joint I sat down by the two hottest girls in the place, and I left with two numbers.
Just keep in mind, there is no "place" to meet women. No "mood" you have to be in, no special clothes you have to be wearing. Walk down the street in any commercial district and they are everywhere.
Keep your eyes open and always be ready! Happy hunting
You should google "dance schools" or "ballroom dancing" a lot do not advertise their salsa or any other group classes on the net..you may have to phone aroundzekko said:
Also if no Salsa in your area you could try group classes in cha cha/foxtrot/rhumba...just go and dance you'll thank me later
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If you're looking for a long-term relationship, then doing volunteer work with a charity can be a good starting place. Not only could you meet a lovely lady, but also you'll be meeting warm hearted, high calibre people who may have friends and relatives to introduce you to. You'll feel good about yourself too. As someone else said: build relationships with all who cross your path & keep in touch.squirrels said:
Have a party and ask everyone you know to bring along someone interesting.
Start a new group on Meetup and attract like-minded individuals. I went to a philosophy group and met someone who teaches tantric sex! You just never know who will be there....