"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Where do you find funny girls?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
California Love
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
Funny and extremely attractive girls are picked up as quickly as they become available.
If you just want to be entertained like they were a clown to amuse you allow your physical appearance requirements to sag and take a look around.
The other option is to find a "queen of the nerds" type. Much under-rated group.
Delta
Master Don Juan
a sense of humor is developed as a compensation device... whether in men or women. listen to the routines of almost EVERY comic out there.... they don't tell funny tales about what it's like to be on the prowl as a dj... it's almost always about the turmoil of being a lowly afc.
a similar phenomena leads to a rather dangerous situation where many movies and books are written by afc's (who have the time for introspection and the thinking of interesting thoughts cuz they're not out fvcking hot chicks) and so the movies depict afc life but the lead roles are played by the likes of brad pitt and keanu reeves. and unfortunately, the logic of the movie's happy ending often relies on the fact that the lead is played by the likes of brad pitt and keanu reeves.
and afc's in the audience think thoughts like... hey, it worked for THEM! ....
basically, it's the same phenom as when the ugly duckling in movies is played by the super hot chick actress just wearing horn rimmed glasses and pig tails until the transformation into the swan happens.
and fat chicks everywhere think, 'hey, if i just be myself, men will love me as i am!'
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i find that wildly unattractive women are pretty damn funny.
fat chicks are a blast.
i suspect that attractive women with a good sense of humor must've been truly unattractive at some point in their early lives.
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personally, i'd much rather a chick bring me to screaming, spurting orgasm rather than 'ENTERTAIN' me. i got comedy central after all....
hey, but that's just me.
delta
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
Ever heard of the 'ugly-duckling' syndrome...?
It's when chicks don't become 'hot' until later in their teens, mainly after hs/in college. Since, they were ugly during those crucial years where popularity and looks meant everything, they were froced to develop a personality just to get by, since they couldnt get by with their looks. Those chicks are a catch, they are hot and actually have a personality.
But the best type of chicks are the ones mentioned WITH low selfesteem. :drool: They're hot, funny and don't think the world of themselves. If you find one of those, you truly have lucked out my friend.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
my e/x was exactly this way only thing that seperated us was distance. during school she was a little overweight and not very attractive but holy shyt did she blossom into a hot HB8.5
we were best friends up until the point where i decided to date and tha twas 5 years into our friendship.