"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where do i start? (after ending an LTR)

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Slique

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Hey guys. Been out of the game for a while and I've been trying to get into the groove of things as of late. Been sarging a few HB's in the past week, but out of the 5, I've only managed to number-close 1 of 'em. Eventually lost interest after two nights with her.

My question is, what's a good exercise to get back into the right mindset to prepare myself for the game? Should i keep swimming in the deep end? Or should i go back to the kiddy pool first?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Damian

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Figure out what your sticking points are. We can't really help you if you just say that you have a problem. Go out and interact with women, then find out what you are doing that is putting them off. Give us a more detailed explanation of your circumstances and, chances are, somebody will come up with a stroke of genius to help you out.

-Damian
 
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Monster

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Hey how old are you? If your my age in college, then you can just go clubbin' wit your crew and you'll meet girls easy. If your older then sorry, I dunno.
 
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And... don't forget... you need some time to get your game back after you've been in a LTR... Doesn't happen in a day, it takes at least a little practice.
 
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Thanks guys. Yeah i'm 22 and i'm in College. LTR really screwed up my game big time. But yeah, I figured out that keeping them comfy is my main issue. Before my LTR, i've always used magic as a large part of my routine. I guess i should stop "mind-reading" then so then they'd be less freaked out. LOL
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ Tips is for giving advice, not asking for it. Please read the description for each forum located below said forum title. Thank you.

Moved to DJD.
 
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