"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Where do i start? (after ending an LTR)

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Slique

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Hey guys. Been out of the game for a while and I've been trying to get into the groove of things as of late. Been sarging a few HB's in the past week, but out of the 5, I've only managed to number-close 1 of 'em. Eventually lost interest after two nights with her.

My question is, what's a good exercise to get back into the right mindset to prepare myself for the game? Should i keep swimming in the deep end? Or should i go back to the kiddy pool first?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Damian

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Figure out what your sticking points are. We can't really help you if you just say that you have a problem. Go out and interact with women, then find out what you are doing that is putting them off. Give us a more detailed explanation of your circumstances and, chances are, somebody will come up with a stroke of genius to help you out.

-Damian
 
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Monster

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Hey how old are you? If your my age in college, then you can just go clubbin' wit your crew and you'll meet girls easy. If your older then sorry, I dunno.
 
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I-am-someone

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And... don't forget... you need some time to get your game back after you've been in a LTR... Doesn't happen in a day, it takes at least a little practice.
 
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Thanks guys. Yeah i'm 22 and i'm in College. LTR really screwed up my game big time. But yeah, I figured out that keeping them comfy is my main issue. Before my LTR, i've always used magic as a large part of my routine. I guess i should stop "mind-reading" then so then they'd be less freaked out. LOL
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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diablo

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DJ Tips is for giving advice, not asking for it. Please read the description for each forum located below said forum title. Thank you.

Moved to DJD.
 
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