"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where do i start? (after ending an LTR)

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Slique

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Hey guys. Been out of the game for a while and I've been trying to get into the groove of things as of late. Been sarging a few HB's in the past week, but out of the 5, I've only managed to number-close 1 of 'em. Eventually lost interest after two nights with her.

My question is, what's a good exercise to get back into the right mindset to prepare myself for the game? Should i keep swimming in the deep end? Or should i go back to the kiddy pool first?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Figure out what your sticking points are. We can't really help you if you just say that you have a problem. Go out and interact with women, then find out what you are doing that is putting them off. Give us a more detailed explanation of your circumstances and, chances are, somebody will come up with a stroke of genius to help you out.

-Damian
 
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Monster

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Hey how old are you? If your my age in college, then you can just go clubbin' wit your crew and you'll meet girls easy. If your older then sorry, I dunno.
 
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And... don't forget... you need some time to get your game back after you've been in a LTR... Doesn't happen in a day, it takes at least a little practice.
 
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Thanks guys. Yeah i'm 22 and i'm in College. LTR really screwed up my game big time. But yeah, I figured out that keeping them comfy is my main issue. Before my LTR, i've always used magic as a large part of my routine. I guess i should stop "mind-reading" then so then they'd be less freaked out. LOL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ Tips is for giving advice, not asking for it. Please read the description for each forum located below said forum title. Thank you.

Moved to DJD.
 
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