So, I met a girl for about 15 minutes through work (not a co-worker that I will work with ever again, just a one time task). She displayed pretty clear IOI's. I call her, leave a voice mail, seeing if she wanted to grab a coffee. She texts me and says she would love to grab coffee, but wanted to let me know that she is engaged (she was not wearing a ring when I saw her). I actually never responded back to that text, thinking "I don't want to get involved with a woman that's engaged". Then, two days later, she texts me and says something to the effect that "the thing is that I am attracted to you, but in this relationship, and hope that I didn't think she was being crass" I said no, you are fine, don't worry about it at all. And I left it at that. A week later, unprompted by me, she texts me and says "wanna grab coffee?" At this point, I am curious. I agree to grab coffee as I would be in the area anyway.
We meet for coffee during a break. I learn that she has been with her fiancé for 7 years (Since age 19), and is having second thoughts of marrying him. Not for any particular reason, but I got the impression that she was questioning herself if she was just settling for this guy. I don't make any moves whatsoever. My thought was that I don't want to be responsible for breaking up a relationship or messing over another dude. However, if this girl wants to go on a fling or flings with other guys, to see what she may or may not be missing, I don't have a problem being that guy.
My question is where should I go from here? We met for coffee two days ago. Should I see if she'd be up for meeting again, maybe grab a drink near my place, then head to my place?
Appreciate any input.
We meet for coffee during a break. I learn that she has been with her fiancé for 7 years (Since age 19), and is having second thoughts of marrying him. Not for any particular reason, but I got the impression that she was questioning herself if she was just settling for this guy. I don't make any moves whatsoever. My thought was that I don't want to be responsible for breaking up a relationship or messing over another dude. However, if this girl wants to go on a fling or flings with other guys, to see what she may or may not be missing, I don't have a problem being that guy.
My question is where should I go from here? We met for coffee two days ago. Should I see if she'd be up for meeting again, maybe grab a drink near my place, then head to my place?
Appreciate any input.