Dorchester
Don Juan
I'm posting in the high school section since I've seen college posts here in the past. I'll be a college freshman this fall, and I don't know where I should post for questions, comments, etc.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Where do college posts go?
- Thread starter Dorchester
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
errrr I guess wherever is most relevant to your thread
if it's a problem high schoolers face put it here, if not DJ discussion
if it's a problem high schoolers face put it here, if not DJ discussion
NorwegianDJ
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I'll take it up with the mods, but the main problem is that there's not a big userbase in college. This forum does suffice though.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I always felt that the High School forum included College.
The "Don Juan Discussion" is for all ages. "High School" forum is for those below 25 years (university, college, high school, etc.). "Mature Man" is for 25 years and above.
Perhaps just rename "High School" to "Youth" forum or something of the equivalent.
The "Don Juan Discussion" is for all ages. "High School" forum is for those below 25 years (university, college, high school, etc.). "Mature Man" is for 25 years and above.
Perhaps just rename "High School" to "Youth" forum or something of the equivalent.
eastcoast15
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Not trying to be a ***** at all but if you guys are interested we've got a forum over at http://collegegame.net/ that is just kicking off. We've got a bunch of college aged guys discussing game.