Dorchester
Don Juan
I'm posting in the high school section since I've seen college posts here in the past. I'll be a college freshman this fall, and I don't know where I should post for questions, comments, etc.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Where do college posts go?
- Thread starter Dorchester
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
errrr I guess wherever is most relevant to your thread
if it's a problem high schoolers face put it here, if not DJ discussion
if it's a problem high schoolers face put it here, if not DJ discussion
NorwegianDJ
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I'll take it up with the mods, but the main problem is that there's not a big userbase in college. This forum does suffice though.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I always felt that the High School forum included College.
The "Don Juan Discussion" is for all ages. "High School" forum is for those below 25 years (university, college, high school, etc.). "Mature Man" is for 25 years and above.
Perhaps just rename "High School" to "Youth" forum or something of the equivalent.
The "Don Juan Discussion" is for all ages. "High School" forum is for those below 25 years (university, college, high school, etc.). "Mature Man" is for 25 years and above.
Perhaps just rename "High School" to "Youth" forum or something of the equivalent.
eastcoast15
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Not trying to be a ***** at all but if you guys are interested we've got a forum over at http://collegegame.net/ that is just kicking off. We've got a bunch of college aged guys discussing game.