Dorchester
Don Juan
I'm posting in the high school section since I've seen college posts here in the past. I'll be a college freshman this fall, and I don't know where I should post for questions, comments, etc.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Where do college posts go?
- Thread starter Dorchester
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
errrr I guess wherever is most relevant to your thread
if it's a problem high schoolers face put it here, if not DJ discussion
if it's a problem high schoolers face put it here, if not DJ discussion
NorwegianDJ
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I'll take it up with the mods, but the main problem is that there's not a big userbase in college. This forum does suffice though.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I always felt that the High School forum included College.
The "Don Juan Discussion" is for all ages. "High School" forum is for those below 25 years (university, college, high school, etc.). "Mature Man" is for 25 years and above.
Perhaps just rename "High School" to "Youth" forum or something of the equivalent.
The "Don Juan Discussion" is for all ages. "High School" forum is for those below 25 years (university, college, high school, etc.). "Mature Man" is for 25 years and above.
Perhaps just rename "High School" to "Youth" forum or something of the equivalent.
eastcoast15
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Not trying to be a ***** at all but if you guys are interested we've got a forum over at http://collegegame.net/ that is just kicking off. We've got a bunch of college aged guys discussing game.