Dorchester
Don Juan
I'm posting in the high school section since I've seen college posts here in the past. I'll be a college freshman this fall, and I don't know where I should post for questions, comments, etc.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Where do college posts go?
- Thread starter Dorchester
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
errrr I guess wherever is most relevant to your thread
if it's a problem high schoolers face put it here, if not DJ discussion
if it's a problem high schoolers face put it here, if not DJ discussion
NorwegianDJ
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I'll take it up with the mods, but the main problem is that there's not a big userbase in college. This forum does suffice though.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I always felt that the High School forum included College.
The "Don Juan Discussion" is for all ages. "High School" forum is for those below 25 years (university, college, high school, etc.). "Mature Man" is for 25 years and above.
Perhaps just rename "High School" to "Youth" forum or something of the equivalent.
The "Don Juan Discussion" is for all ages. "High School" forum is for those below 25 years (university, college, high school, etc.). "Mature Man" is for 25 years and above.
Perhaps just rename "High School" to "Youth" forum or something of the equivalent.
eastcoast15
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Not trying to be a ***** at all but if you guys are interested we've got a forum over at http://collegegame.net/ that is just kicking off. We've got a bunch of college aged guys discussing game.