"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Where did this go wrong - what can I do better next time?

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Haha had I thought of that text I would have sent that a week or so ago when she first went silent. I won't be contacting her again though.

Yeah I shall try and get 10 on the go......
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Great being a man said:
Only reason you regret anything
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btw this isn't a regret thread or a "please help me get her back" thread. This was just about getting feedback so I can do better with the next one.
 
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^ Even if you're joking, don't man. I really hope you're joking! It's not worth it dude. You gotta have sex with a girl you actually like. Don't have your first time with some woman you don't care about. Even if you only do it past 30, or 35, or 40 (and I'm sure this won't be the case), who the hell cares? Would you rather remember how you had to go to Amsterdam for the rest of your life, or wait for a couple more years, hone your game, and do it with a girl you've earned affection and attraction from?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Be more sexual in future. If they sense your fear they will get turned off.
 
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Konduit said:
^ Even if you're joking, don't man. I really hope you're joking! It's not worth it dude. You gotta have sex with a girl you actually like. Don't have your first time with some woman you don't care about. Even if you only do it past 30, or 35, or 40 (and I'm sure this won't be the case), who the hell cares? Would you rather remember how you had to go to Amsterdam for the rest of your life, or wait for a couple more years, hone your game, and do it with a girl you've earned affection and attraction from?
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Sex is better when you are young, as in teens and 20's, as in terms of physical pleasure and sensation
 
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