"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where did this go wrong - what can I do better next time?

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Haha had I thought of that text I would have sent that a week or so ago when she first went silent. I won't be contacting her again though.

Yeah I shall try and get 10 on the go......
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Great being a man said:
Only reason you regret anything
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btw this isn't a regret thread or a "please help me get her back" thread. This was just about getting feedback so I can do better with the next one.
 
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^ Even if you're joking, don't man. I really hope you're joking! It's not worth it dude. You gotta have sex with a girl you actually like. Don't have your first time with some woman you don't care about. Even if you only do it past 30, or 35, or 40 (and I'm sure this won't be the case), who the hell cares? Would you rather remember how you had to go to Amsterdam for the rest of your life, or wait for a couple more years, hone your game, and do it with a girl you've earned affection and attraction from?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Be more sexual in future. If they sense your fear they will get turned off.
 
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Konduit said:
^ Even if you're joking, don't man. I really hope you're joking! It's not worth it dude. You gotta have sex with a girl you actually like. Don't have your first time with some woman you don't care about. Even if you only do it past 30, or 35, or 40 (and I'm sure this won't be the case), who the hell cares? Would you rather remember how you had to go to Amsterdam for the rest of your life, or wait for a couple more years, hone your game, and do it with a girl you've earned affection and attraction from?
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Sex is better when you are young, as in teens and 20's, as in terms of physical pleasure and sensation
 
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