"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Where did this go wrong - what can I do better next time?

Eternal_water

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Haha had I thought of that text I would have sent that a week or so ago when she first went silent. I won't be contacting her again though.

Yeah I shall try and get 10 on the go......
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Eternal_water

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Great being a man said:
Only reason you regret anything
btw this isn't a regret thread or a "please help me get her back" thread. This was just about getting feedback so I can do better with the next one.
 

Genos

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^ Even if you're joking, don't man. I really hope you're joking! It's not worth it dude. You gotta have sex with a girl you actually like. Don't have your first time with some woman you don't care about. Even if you only do it past 30, or 35, or 40 (and I'm sure this won't be the case), who the hell cares? Would you rather remember how you had to go to Amsterdam for the rest of your life, or wait for a couple more years, hone your game, and do it with a girl you've earned affection and attraction from?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Be more sexual in future. If they sense your fear they will get turned off.
 

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Konduit said:
^ Even if you're joking, don't man. I really hope you're joking! It's not worth it dude. You gotta have sex with a girl you actually like. Don't have your first time with some woman you don't care about. Even if you only do it past 30, or 35, or 40 (and I'm sure this won't be the case), who the hell cares? Would you rather remember how you had to go to Amsterdam for the rest of your life, or wait for a couple more years, hone your game, and do it with a girl you've earned affection and attraction from?
Sex is better when you are young, as in teens and 20's, as in terms of physical pleasure and sensation
 
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