"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where did the term "flake" come from?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/flake

Origin:1350–1400; (noun) Middle English; akin to Old English flac- in flacox flying (said of arrows), Old Norse flakka to rove, wander, Middle Dutch vlacken to flutter;

http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/Talk:flake

there is a Norwegian word flak which means torn piece

...the word flectus( curved) is a cognate of flake.


I think a lot of very old words started out in an onomatopoetic sense - the word sounds like what it describes. An arrow flying through the air makes a 'ffffffff' sound. The "lak" is probably the arrow hitting something.

I'm also guessing all of this is also the origin of the last name of Baltimore's NFL quarterback: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joe_Flacco
 

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Bible_Belt said:
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/flake

Origin:1350–1400; (noun) Middle English; akin to Old English flac- in flacox flying (said of arrows), Old Norse flakka to rove, wander, Middle Dutch vlacken to flutter;

http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/Talk:flake

there is a Norwegian word flak which means torn piece

...the word flectus( curved) is a cognate of flake.


I think a lot of very old words started out in an onomatopoetic sense - the word sounds like what it describes. An arrow flying through the air makes a 'ffffffff' sound. The "lak" is probably the arrow hitting something.

I'm also guessing all of this is also the origin of the last name of Baltimore's NFL quarterback: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joe_Flacco
Sorry man, I meant the DJ term for "flake", as in to blow off or stand up.
 

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I always thought it was dandruff—just kidding.

I think what BPH was asking is who took the already existing word and applied it to dating, thus inventing a new usage of terminology. PUA terms originated from Usenet newsgroup discussions during the mid to late 1990's, so the origins were probably somewhere in there. Before then, there was no cultural terminology of “flaking” because there was no Internet for meta-game discussions—people were simply “stood up” or “cancelled.”
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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probably regional slang. like "that's fresh" or saying pop instead of soda
 

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I remember it being used in movies during the early '90s, seemed to just be another word for "unreliable" then.
 
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