"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"Where are u from?"
- Thread starter Trapper
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
This is smal talk... just tell a chick where you're from... you're misunderstanding the concept of being 'mysterious'... you communicate your challenge and mystery, not by being evasive with a basic question, but about how you answer the more meaty questions about you...
Her: Where are you from?
You: A house, you?
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Her: Where are you from?
You: Planet Earth, & yourself?
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Her: Where are you from?
You: I don't know, but I sure know where I would like to be going.. *grin*
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Her: Where are you from?
You: I'm from here (wherever you are) .. You looking for a tour guide? I'll give you some good benefits and a tour you'll never forget... *grin* (Say this playfully)
Anyways, there are a few idea's that came to my head..
Laterz...
Trapper said:
Guys are posting every little thing they come across to on this site to expect others to help them with everything.
This is so simple, if you can't think of it, go in field and try it out.
I'm not going to help you out, I'm not going to encourage this laziness.
Use your own head.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
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PRMoon
Master Don Juan
When i'm out of town, I say "Vegas baby!" No place like it. Accept no substitutes.
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:Her: Where are you from?
You: A house, you?
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Her: Where are you from?
You: Planet Earth, & yourself?
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Her: Where are you from?
You: I don't know, but I sure know where I would like to be going.. *grin*
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Her: Where are you from?
You: I'm from here (wherever you are) .. You looking for a tour guide? I'll give you some good benefits and a tour you'll never forget... *grin* (Say this playfully)
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hahahaha! That sh*t is awsome! Good post ~ªêQµïTª$~
Right now I'm living in one county south of the one I grew up. So when a girl asks where I'm from I reply, "all the way up north........in _ County"
Use something like that, but DO tell here where you're from, or make her guess
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.