"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"Where are u from?"
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
This is smal talk... just tell a chick where you're from... you're misunderstanding the concept of being 'mysterious'... you communicate your challenge and mystery, not by being evasive with a basic question, but about how you answer the more meaty questions about you...
Her: Where are you from?
You: A house, you?
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Her: Where are you from?
You: Planet Earth, & yourself?
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Her: Where are you from?
You: I don't know, but I sure know where I would like to be going.. *grin*
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Her: Where are you from?
You: I'm from here (wherever you are) .. You looking for a tour guide? I'll give you some good benefits and a tour you'll never forget... *grin* (Say this playfully)
Anyways, there are a few idea's that came to my head..
Laterz...
Trapper said:
Guys are posting every little thing they come across to on this site to expect others to help them with everything.
This is so simple, if you can't think of it, go in field and try it out.
I'm not going to help you out, I'm not going to encourage this laziness.
Use your own head.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Zerotwoonenine
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PRMoon
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When i'm out of town, I say "Vegas baby!" No place like it. Accept no substitutes.
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:Her: Where are you from?
You: A house, you?
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Her: Where are you from?
You: Planet Earth, & yourself?
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Her: Where are you from?
You: I don't know, but I sure know where I would like to be going.. *grin*
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Her: Where are you from?
You: I'm from here (wherever you are) .. You looking for a tour guide? I'll give you some good benefits and a tour you'll never forget... *grin* (Say this playfully)
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hahahaha! That sh*t is awsome! Good post ~ªêQµïTª$~
Right now I'm living in one county south of the one I grew up. So when a girl asks where I'm from I reply, "all the way up north........in _ County"
Use something like that, but DO tell here where you're from, or make her guess
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.