"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"Where are u from?"
- Thread starter Trapper
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
This is smal talk... just tell a chick where you're from... you're misunderstanding the concept of being 'mysterious'... you communicate your challenge and mystery, not by being evasive with a basic question, but about how you answer the more meaty questions about you...
Her: Where are you from?
You: A house, you?
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Her: Where are you from?
You: Planet Earth, & yourself?
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Her: Where are you from?
You: I don't know, but I sure know where I would like to be going.. *grin*
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Her: Where are you from?
You: I'm from here (wherever you are) .. You looking for a tour guide? I'll give you some good benefits and a tour you'll never forget... *grin* (Say this playfully)
Anyways, there are a few idea's that came to my head..
Laterz...
Trapper said:
Guys are posting every little thing they come across to on this site to expect others to help them with everything.
This is so simple, if you can't think of it, go in field and try it out.
I'm not going to help you out, I'm not going to encourage this laziness.
Use your own head.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
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PRMoon
Master Don Juan
When i'm out of town, I say "Vegas baby!" No place like it. Accept no substitutes.
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:Her: Where are you from?
You: A house, you?
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Her: Where are you from?
You: Planet Earth, & yourself?
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Her: Where are you from?
You: I don't know, but I sure know where I would like to be going.. *grin*
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Her: Where are you from?
You: I'm from here (wherever you are) .. You looking for a tour guide? I'll give you some good benefits and a tour you'll never forget... *grin* (Say this playfully)
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hahahaha! That sh*t is awsome! Good post ~ªêQµïTª$~
Right now I'm living in one county south of the one I grew up. So when a girl asks where I'm from I reply, "all the way up north........in _ County"
Use something like that, but DO tell here where you're from, or make her guess
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.