This all sounds good and everything, but you failed to mention one thing: Is she hot? If she is an average girl, then more power to you!! You are probably right about everything you said. That is exactly how average girls are.One of the things that drew me to my wife was that she possesses (and was raised with) conservative values, is family-oriented, was never a club ho, and has always been very selective regarding who she's friends with. Of the FEW people she keeps as "friends," only one is single. She doesn't do the "girl's night out" thing (she even refused having a bachelorette party thrown for her; I declined the offers I got for a bachelor party as well). She had only two boyfriends before meeting me, one of which she was in a relationship with for 10 years before finally dumping him because he didn't want to take the relationship (and himself) to the next level and wanted to remain a man-child (mega gaming/comic book-collecting geek). No past of promiscuity, one-night stands, or "chronic dating." And definitely no "guy friends." Furthermore, she's actually a "mama's girl;" and I like that.
Guys who think they'll find quality women at CLUBS have their heads up their arse. These are places where you will find an overabundance of women whose PRIMARY values are "being hot" and phukkable, and who like to lush around, posting pics of themselves buzzed and holding a drink on Facebook; that ain't quality, dudes.
All this over-emphasis on the pseudo-science of evolutionary psychology and all the rhetoric about these flimsy notions of biological imperatives might hold SOME water to an extent; but if the whole spiel about males needing to spread their seed widely to ensure the survival of one's genes is going to mean anything, it is to be in the context of creating a family, and not in terms of dumping one's seed into a condom or all over the face of a hot girl one met at a club.
However, I challenge you to find ANY of the qualities that you mentioned in a hot girl. Furthermore, I find it interesting that you believe that there is something wrong with girls who like "being hot". What is wrong with you? Do you have a pen15? All males (with pen15es) like attractive women, and attractive women want attractive, high value or high status males.
I bet you a box of doughnuts that the only reason that your girl was not a total slut was because she was not in high enough demand to have any situation presented to her in which she would be a slut. In other words, she most likely was not backstage with the band of her dreams, was not in a booth at a club with jay-z or george clooney and probably wasn't on a yacht with a billionaire.
The other thing that males with pen15es should never do is accept that females are ever telling the truth about their sexual past. Its always the quiet ones who get their giny ripped apart by 30 guys at a college gangbang, then claim that they have only been with 2 dudes before you. Yeah...I totally believe that one.