"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When's the best time to weigh yourself?

idiot_boyfriend

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Right now I'm in the process of bulking up, working out, etc....

I want a really accurate chart of my increasing mass, but I'm unsure as to when I should make that measurement.

Should I do it before a shower or after a shower? Before a workout or after a workout?

Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
Right now I'm in the process of bulking up, working out, etc....

I want a really accurate chart of my increasing mass, but I'm unsure as to when I should make that measurement.

Should I do it before a shower or after a shower? Before a workout or after a workout?

Thanks.
Do it the first thing in the morning, before breakfast after you've taken a pi$$ and shyt.
 

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doesn't matter as long as it is at the same point in your daily routine everyday (ie, you've had the same number of meals, worksouts whatever as you had the previous day if possible, when you wigh yourself).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thanks for the insight, DJs.
 
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