"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When you wake up pretend your wearing a crown

cola

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In the morning when you wake up pretend their is a crown on your head and you are a king. Really imagine yourself a king and every where you step is your kingdom.
Really reflect on how a king would carry himself.

How does a king walk?
How would a king speak?
What type of behavior would a king accept from others?

Negative people are banished from the kingdom and must earn rentrance.

The fact is you are a king. A king of yourself. You control your destiny.
You direct where your going in life.

What if this life is a gift from the higher power to see just how far you can go and the only real obstacle is how fast you give up?

So tomorrow remember you are a king.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Logged in just to agree with what everyone before had said: excellent advice. Thinking with this kind of mindset will really help the notion of thinking we are the "catch".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The best way feeling like a king in the morning is to love your life. That means stable income, loving your job, and most importantly good health. And a hot babe in bed wouldn't hurt.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BE ROYAL IN YOUR OWN FASHION : ACT LIKE A KING TO BE TREATED LIKE ONE.
-Wise one from Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power.

Never underestimate the power of this. More important than all the suave sh!t we learn. With everything else right, this would take you far.

Just swaggered into class some 30mins ago, and for some 15 mins I was their hot topic, it hurts to see somebody so comfortable in his skin. These hoes giving me the "I wanna bone ya" look but guess what.....

I DON'T CARE. REALLY, I DO NOT JUST.

And that's what makes you seem even hotter. This one's like a grandson to another rule in Robert's book...

MAKE YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS SEEM EFFORTLESS.

Gotta listen to my lecturer now. Stay DJ.
 
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