"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When you wake up pretend your wearing a crown

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In the morning when you wake up pretend their is a crown on your head and you are a king. Really imagine yourself a king and every where you step is your kingdom.
Really reflect on how a king would carry himself.

How does a king walk?
How would a king speak?
What type of behavior would a king accept from others?

Negative people are banished from the kingdom and must earn rentrance.

The fact is you are a king. A king of yourself. You control your destiny.
You direct where your going in life.

What if this life is a gift from the higher power to see just how far you can go and the only real obstacle is how fast you give up?

So tomorrow remember you are a king.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Logged in just to agree with what everyone before had said: excellent advice. Thinking with this kind of mindset will really help the notion of thinking we are the "catch".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The best way feeling like a king in the morning is to love your life. That means stable income, loving your job, and most importantly good health. And a hot babe in bed wouldn't hurt.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BE ROYAL IN YOUR OWN FASHION : ACT LIKE A KING TO BE TREATED LIKE ONE.
-Wise one from Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power.

Never underestimate the power of this. More important than all the suave sh!t we learn. With everything else right, this would take you far.

Just swaggered into class some 30mins ago, and for some 15 mins I was their hot topic, it hurts to see somebody so comfortable in his skin. These hoes giving me the "I wanna bone ya" look but guess what.....

I DON'T CARE. REALLY, I DO NOT JUST.

And that's what makes you seem even hotter. This one's like a grandson to another rule in Robert's book...

MAKE YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS SEEM EFFORTLESS.

Gotta listen to my lecturer now. Stay DJ.
 
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