"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When you wake up pretend your wearing a crown

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In the morning when you wake up pretend their is a crown on your head and you are a king. Really imagine yourself a king and every where you step is your kingdom.
Really reflect on how a king would carry himself.

How does a king walk?
How would a king speak?
What type of behavior would a king accept from others?

Negative people are banished from the kingdom and must earn rentrance.

The fact is you are a king. A king of yourself. You control your destiny.
You direct where your going in life.

What if this life is a gift from the higher power to see just how far you can go and the only real obstacle is how fast you give up?

So tomorrow remember you are a king.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Logged in just to agree with what everyone before had said: excellent advice. Thinking with this kind of mindset will really help the notion of thinking we are the "catch".
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The best way feeling like a king in the morning is to love your life. That means stable income, loving your job, and most importantly good health. And a hot babe in bed wouldn't hurt.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BE ROYAL IN YOUR OWN FASHION : ACT LIKE A KING TO BE TREATED LIKE ONE.
-Wise one from Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power.

Never underestimate the power of this. More important than all the suave sh!t we learn. With everything else right, this would take you far.

Just swaggered into class some 30mins ago, and for some 15 mins I was their hot topic, it hurts to see somebody so comfortable in his skin. These hoes giving me the "I wanna bone ya" look but guess what.....

I DON'T CARE. REALLY, I DO NOT JUST.

And that's what makes you seem even hotter. This one's like a grandson to another rule in Robert's book...

MAKE YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS SEEM EFFORTLESS.

Gotta listen to my lecturer now. Stay DJ.
 
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