Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
Does it always mean she "submits" to you?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When you make eye contact and she looks down
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
GaryUranga
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it means shes nervous in most cases, in others its just somehtign ppl do no reason to read too much into it
Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
Wtf man...I dont understand lmao....everything I have read is suddenly false according to you fellas here at so suave
GaryUranga
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yeha well you probably read somehtign abotu not lookign away after eye contact cause its submissive behaviour, its true holdign eye contact demonstrates power, you shoudl never be breakign it first or lookign away it communicates that youre nervous, however, if the girl looks away what does this say, either a) shes nervous about you or b) shes nevrvous about ppl, you could even add to thta that it just happened it doesnt have to always have to have a meanign behind it
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Overanalysing.
I wouldn't worry about it, make of it what you will. Just frame it into whatever you want and move on.
Ok that's my opinion but maybe you are actually at the stage where this stuff may be usefull, only you can know
I wouldn't worry about it, make of it what you will. Just frame it into whatever you want and move on.
Ok that's my opinion but maybe you are actually at the stage where this stuff may be usefull, only you can know
The only way you are going to find out if she is attracted to you is by TALKING TO HER. You can't do it by observing her or analysing her. Everyone is different and her little motions could be for a number of reasons. Where did you read that it's good if she holds eye contact? If you make eye contact you HAVE to approach her.Avn_0903 said: