Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
Does it always mean she "submits" to you?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When you make eye contact and she looks down
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GaryUranga
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it means shes nervous in most cases, in others its just somehtign ppl do no reason to read too much into it
Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
Wtf man...I dont understand lmao....everything I have read is suddenly false according to you fellas here at so suave
GaryUranga
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yeha well you probably read somehtign abotu not lookign away after eye contact cause its submissive behaviour, its true holdign eye contact demonstrates power, you shoudl never be breakign it first or lookign away it communicates that youre nervous, however, if the girl looks away what does this say, either a) shes nervous about you or b) shes nevrvous about ppl, you could even add to thta that it just happened it doesnt have to always have to have a meanign behind it
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Overanalysing.
I wouldn't worry about it, make of it what you will. Just frame it into whatever you want and move on.
Ok that's my opinion but maybe you are actually at the stage where this stuff may be usefull, only you can know
I wouldn't worry about it, make of it what you will. Just frame it into whatever you want and move on.
Ok that's my opinion but maybe you are actually at the stage where this stuff may be usefull, only you can know
The only way you are going to find out if she is attracted to you is by TALKING TO HER. You can't do it by observing her or analysing her. Everyone is different and her little motions could be for a number of reasons. Where did you read that it's good if she holds eye contact? If you make eye contact you HAVE to approach her.Avn_0903 said: