Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
Does it always mean she "submits" to you?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When you make eye contact and she looks down
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
GaryUranga
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it means shes nervous in most cases, in others its just somehtign ppl do no reason to read too much into it
Bonafide
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Wtf man...I dont understand lmao....everything I have read is suddenly false according to you fellas here at so suave
GaryUranga
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yeha well you probably read somehtign abotu not lookign away after eye contact cause its submissive behaviour, its true holdign eye contact demonstrates power, you shoudl never be breakign it first or lookign away it communicates that youre nervous, however, if the girl looks away what does this say, either a) shes nervous about you or b) shes nevrvous about ppl, you could even add to thta that it just happened it doesnt have to always have to have a meanign behind it
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Overanalysing.
I wouldn't worry about it, make of it what you will. Just frame it into whatever you want and move on.
Ok that's my opinion but maybe you are actually at the stage where this stuff may be usefull, only you can know
I wouldn't worry about it, make of it what you will. Just frame it into whatever you want and move on.
Ok that's my opinion but maybe you are actually at the stage where this stuff may be usefull, only you can know
The only way you are going to find out if she is attracted to you is by TALKING TO HER. You can't do it by observing her or analysing her. Everyone is different and her little motions could be for a number of reasons. Where did you read that it's good if she holds eye contact? If you make eye contact you HAVE to approach her.Avn_0903 said: