Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
Does it always mean she "submits" to you?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When you make eye contact and she looks down
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
GaryUranga
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it means shes nervous in most cases, in others its just somehtign ppl do no reason to read too much into it
Bonafide
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Wtf man...I dont understand lmao....everything I have read is suddenly false according to you fellas here at so suave
GaryUranga
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yeha well you probably read somehtign abotu not lookign away after eye contact cause its submissive behaviour, its true holdign eye contact demonstrates power, you shoudl never be breakign it first or lookign away it communicates that youre nervous, however, if the girl looks away what does this say, either a) shes nervous about you or b) shes nevrvous about ppl, you could even add to thta that it just happened it doesnt have to always have to have a meanign behind it
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Overanalysing.
I wouldn't worry about it, make of it what you will. Just frame it into whatever you want and move on.
Ok that's my opinion but maybe you are actually at the stage where this stuff may be usefull, only you can know
I wouldn't worry about it, make of it what you will. Just frame it into whatever you want and move on.
Ok that's my opinion but maybe you are actually at the stage where this stuff may be usefull, only you can know
The only way you are going to find out if she is attracted to you is by TALKING TO HER. You can't do it by observing her or analysing her. Everyone is different and her little motions could be for a number of reasons. Where did you read that it's good if she holds eye contact? If you make eye contact you HAVE to approach her.Avn_0903 said: