"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Vincent
ooo saucy
dont tell me u getting scared ??? *three question marks* lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I went to some party with my friend and meet this girl. After i've been talking to her, dancing, and some making out, i wanted to get her number - I could, however, not remember her name.

I didn't feel like asking "hey whats your name again?" (since I already asked it twice, and didn't want to joke about it again). What I did to solve this problem was telling my friend to walk up to her with me, and introduce himself. He should then, shake her hand and ask for her name when introducing.

[Me, standing next to the girl and my friend]

Friend: Hi. I saw you meet my friend, what's your name?"
Her: Blah blah blah
Friend: Cool.

And it's as easy as that. At least if it comes to a situation that's common with that one.

Another one I've used to get the girls name a second time is, after a number close, handle your cellphone to her and telling her to enter the number on her own.

"Hey...take my phone and enter your number with your name in my phonebook."

Another thing to do is asking her for the number, write it on the cellphone, and then ask her what you should write as a name(ask in a c&f way).

She'll probably go something like;

"Just write my name"

If it's like the this you could just ask "Oh, so what's your whole name?".

She'll hopefully say her First name, middle name and then last name.

Once she says her first name you could interupt her gently and say "Oh I already know your first name." (Remember to be c&f).

Let her finish telling her the middle and last name, and then tell her that she got a cool middle name, and that you will enter her first and middle name in your phone to remember her.

Voila. Now you got it.

If you dont feel like doing anything like this you could just say:

"Hey... what's your name again?"

:p
 

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Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
dont tell me u getting scared ??? *three question marks* lol
Scared of you???

Well I got something you should be scared of ;)
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
Scared of you???

Well I got something you should be scared of ;)
Oh, you such a naughty boy!:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good one, ego

Introducing a friend, yes.

Another thing I do when a gal whose name I forgot is with one or more friends of hers, is simple to listen to the convo until her name comes up. It almost always does.
 

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Here's a solution a female friend of mine used, after waking up in the guy's bed

Her: *laughs*
Him: What?
Her: I bet you can't remember my name!

She made him guess it, giving him **** the whole time. A few minutes later, she pulls out her phone and says "so, what's your name?"

Of course if you try this on a girl and she *can* remember your name, you're more ****ed than you were before :D
 
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