StepItUpAnotch
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dont tell me u getting scared ??? *three question marks* lol
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
WHen you forget her name....
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I went to some party with my friend and meet this girl. After i've been talking to her, dancing, and some making out, i wanted to get her number - I could, however, not remember her name.
I didn't feel like asking "hey whats your name again?" (since I already asked it twice, and didn't want to joke about it again). What I did to solve this problem was telling my friend to walk up to her with me, and introduce himself. He should then, shake her hand and ask for her name when introducing.
[Me, standing next to the girl and my friend]
Friend: Hi. I saw you meet my friend, what's your name?"
Her: Blah blah blah
Friend: Cool.
And it's as easy as that. At least if it comes to a situation that's common with that one.
Another one I've used to get the girls name a second time is, after a number close, handle your cellphone to her and telling her to enter the number on her own.
"Hey...take my phone and enter your number with your name in my phonebook."
Another thing to do is asking her for the number, write it on the cellphone, and then ask her what you should write as a name(ask in a c&f way).
She'll probably go something like;
"Just write my name"
If it's like the this you could just ask "Oh, so what's your whole name?".
She'll hopefully say her First name, middle name and then last name.
Once she says her first name you could interupt her gently and say "Oh I already know your first name." (Remember to be c&f).
Let her finish telling her the middle and last name, and then tell her that she got a cool middle name, and that you will enter her first and middle name in your phone to remember her.
Voila. Now you got it.
If you dont feel like doing anything like this you could just say:
"Hey... what's your name again?"
I didn't feel like asking "hey whats your name again?" (since I already asked it twice, and didn't want to joke about it again). What I did to solve this problem was telling my friend to walk up to her with me, and introduce himself. He should then, shake her hand and ask for her name when introducing.
[Me, standing next to the girl and my friend]
Friend: Hi. I saw you meet my friend, what's your name?"
Her: Blah blah blah
Friend: Cool.
And it's as easy as that. At least if it comes to a situation that's common with that one.
Another one I've used to get the girls name a second time is, after a number close, handle your cellphone to her and telling her to enter the number on her own.
"Hey...take my phone and enter your number with your name in my phonebook."
Another thing to do is asking her for the number, write it on the cellphone, and then ask her what you should write as a name(ask in a c&f way).
She'll probably go something like;
"Just write my name"
If it's like the this you could just ask "Oh, so what's your whole name?".
She'll hopefully say her First name, middle name and then last name.
Once she says her first name you could interupt her gently and say "Oh I already know your first name." (Remember to be c&f).
Let her finish telling her the middle and last name, and then tell her that she got a cool middle name, and that you will enter her first and middle name in your phone to remember her.
Voila. Now you got it.
If you dont feel like doing anything like this you could just say:
"Hey... what's your name again?"
StepItUpAnotch
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Oh, you such a naughty boy!Originally posted by Vincent
Scared of you???
Well I got something you should be scared of
LuvMyArmyMan
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ok, now that is just sick and wrong. Now we've got a mod flirting with a female poster, let alone a TROLL!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Good one, ego
Introducing a friend, yes.
Another thing I do when a gal whose name I forgot is with one or more friends of hers, is simple to listen to the convo until her name comes up. It almost always does.
Introducing a friend, yes.
Another thing I do when a gal whose name I forgot is with one or more friends of hers, is simple to listen to the convo until her name comes up. It almost always does.
Here's a solution a female friend of mine used, after waking up in the guy's bed
Her: *laughs*
Him: What?
Her: I bet you can't remember my name!
She made him guess it, giving him **** the whole time. A few minutes later, she pulls out her phone and says "so, what's your name?"
Of course if you try this on a girl and she *can* remember your name, you're more ****ed than you were before
Her: *laughs*
Him: What?
Her: I bet you can't remember my name!
She made him guess it, giving him **** the whole time. A few minutes later, she pulls out her phone and says "so, what's your name?"
Of course if you try this on a girl and she *can* remember your name, you're more ****ed than you were before