"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WHen you forget her name....

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guys what do you do?
i'm proud to say i've upped the number of female contacts i have, but i'm not too good with names, and i've already started forgetting the names of the ones whom i wasn't too interested in, other than social proof or befriending (to hook me up with her friends later)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did you ever see that episode of Seinfeld?
 

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I also use to have a problem keeping track of all the chicks that i had met/been with etc.... So what i found to help alot is to make a note of her name on your phone next to her number...

And if there are too many chicks, then make a list on your pc, i have many of those, and they tend to come to good use;)
 

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Originally posted by MsThang
Did you ever see that episode of Seinfeld?
And people say we have lame posts :p




Just kidding. AHHH DON'T EAT ME, AHHHH


If you weren't interested why does it matter? You are the social proof, you don't need chicks to prove you're a man.
 
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Giving you this piece of advice is against my religion but here goes anways.

Just call all your girlfriends the same pet name.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch

Giving you this piece of advice is against my religion but here goes anways.

Just call all your girlfriends the same pet name.
What happens if you run into an ex and can't remember her name, so you just call her by her pet name while you are with your girlfriend with the same pet name :p
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
so you just call her by her pet name while you are with your girlfriend with the same pet name :p

You must want to get pimped slapped! :p

lol she's an EX why would you WANT to remeber her name silly!

NOW CHECK MATE!

 

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Originally posted by Vincent
What happens if you run into an ex and can't remember her name, so you just call her by her pet name while you are with your girlfriend with the same pet name :p
Silly boy. You don't introduce your ex girlfriend to your current girlfriend. (Or at least you don't call her by name!)

When I was still with my ex, I could tell whenever we'd run into someone whose name he'd forgotten. He just wouldn't introduce me. So I'd do him the favor and say jokingly "oh he's so rude... hi I'm ____" Then the person would introduce themselves & he'd know their name. (This doesn't work with ex-girlfriends).

Stolen from Tucker Max:
When you've forgotten the name of the girl you just woke up in bed with... you sneak out of bed while she's still asleep, and go through her purse til you find her wallet & ID. (This backfired on him once though, lol).
 
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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu

Stolen from Tucker Max:
When you've forgotten the name of the girl you just woke up in bed with... you sneak out of bed while she's still asleep, and go through her purse til you find her wallet & ID. (This backfired on him once though, lol).
lmaoooo thats totally a bad idea

What about tell her you need her address for your new palm pilot? Oh How do you spell your name again??
 

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Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
lmaoooo thats totally a bad idea

What about tell her you need her address for your new palm pilot? Oh How do you spell your name again??
No way, what if her name is Sue or something simple like that. "Ooooh okay, I just wanted to make sure it wasn't spelled 'Soooooooh' thanks" LOL. And most guys I date don't even get my home # let alone my ADDRESS!

Note: The only reason the purse thing backfired for him was because he looked in the wrong purse! (His roommate had had a chick over too). He was rushing so he didn't check the PICTURE on the ID, just the name... So then he says "Good morning Stacey" and she's like "Who is Stacey?"

Read it, he's hilarious: http://www.tuckermax.com/tuckersneaky.html
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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*dead @ that article

Funny Sh*t :D

Sometimes the truth also works. I use it all the time

Me: "I'm sorry, I dont remeber your name" *flashes boobs*
Him: ......... damn I forgot my own damn name...

lol
 

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Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
*dead @ that article

Funny Sh*t :D
Browse the site a little bit. He's awesome. If I was a DJ he'd be my idol.
 

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First off, BECOME good with names. It will serve you well.

But if you do happen to forget a name, it's really very simple.

"You know what? I'm sorry, but I'm one rude motherfvcker. What was your name again?"

Don't say it in a lame, the world is coming down on you way. Say it in a playful, yet serious way. After she tells you, don't dwell on it. Just move on with the conversation.

Works for me.

Drop the games and come clean.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Once this guy I was dating had forgotten my name...

They never found his body since

*whistling*
 

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Stolen from Tucker Max:
When you've forgotten the name of the girl you just woke up in bed with... you sneak out of bed while she's still asleep, and go through her purse til you find her wallet & ID. (This backfired on him once though, lol).
Lol, that guy is my hero.
 

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Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
What about tell her you need her address for your new palm pilot? Oh How do you spell your name again??
One of my friends used that on me, didn't work to well considering my name is Mike.
Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
Sometimes the truth also works. I use it all the time

Me: "I'm sorry, I dont remeber your name" *flashes boobs*
Him: ......... damn I forgot my own damn name...
I do believe we'll need some pictures to see if this works or not.
 
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Originally posted by Vincent

I do believe we'll need some pictures to see if this works or not.
Meet me on yahoo at 7:00pm EST :p imm pms u my handle when I sign back on later

One of my friends used that on me, didn't work to well considering my name is Mike.
Mike can be spelled in many different ways.. like mik or mic... well no im just making sh1t up now lol
 

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Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
Meet me on yahoo at 7:00pm EST :p imm pms u my handle when I sign back on later
ooo saucy
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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