Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
What are some of the best places to take her? Dont say the movies, I'm not taking a chick to the movies on the first date ever again, I just find that too generic and boring.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When you ask a girl out...
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
it all depends on you bro. what kinds of things you're into! for me, i'm pretty mellow guy. instead of going to the movies, i rent movies and invite the chick to my house, that way it's easier to make my move over some wine, make sure i set the mood right.
There's nothing wrong with taking your date to dinner, just make sure its a nice restaurant something different... perhaps a restaurant with live music! thats always fun.
There's nothing wrong with taking your date to dinner, just make sure its a nice restaurant something different... perhaps a restaurant with live music! thats always fun.
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i disagree, i think the important date is the first!... that's when she decides if she wants to see you again. once youre on the second date, youre pretty much in.jcap said:starbucks
first dates should be short and inexpensive.
the important thing is the #2nd date, not the first date.
Yama is right. The first date is the most important so make sure you are getting enough time with her to make a lasting impression on her when she figures out if you are worth it or not. Although i know most of you "alpha males" out there will have something to say about this but, i still stand by it because you both have to believe to be worth the time and effort or else it just wont work.yama600rr said:i disagree, i think the important date is the first!... that's when she decides if she wants to see you again. once youre on the second date, youre pretty much in.